All these conversations remind me of
Hono Pono: Hawaiian tradition.
I learned about it many years ago from a friend. Looked it up again to refresh my memory. The articles today say it is about having a responsibility to everything/one/being around you. ? and the planet.
But what I remember the most the first time I came across it was Hono Pono was also about healing. (That when one helped others, that would help heal them.) Thought that was really beautiful. So my first impression was Hono Pono was a practice and ritual of well being.
Of course I can understand the opposite as well when one does not take care of their own health and well being, then it’s harder to be physically present for others. Guess balance is the key.