What an amazing conversation. Well I just want to add something at this point. Jung said.
The shadow is a moral problem that challenges the whole ego-personality, for no one can become conscious of the shadow without considerable moral effort. To become conscious of it involves recognizing the dark aspects of the personality as present and real.
Now Stephen said that the shadow is not evil but I think as long as its a “shadow” its always evil or immoral as far as the ego can “see” and its only when integrated that can be understood as something positive, right? A trick I learned over the years once I think something as immoral its always a good time take a step back and reflect upon it. Anyways just some extra thoughts.